The American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) will provide a list of certified sex therapists and counselors in your area. Send a selfaddressed stamped envelope to: AASECT, P.O. Box 5488, Richmond, VA 23220-0488. Tel: 804-644-3288. Web site: www.aasect.org/.
Many sex therapists recommend the use of aids to compensate for loss of sensation and other problems.
The Xandria Collection's Special Edition Catalog for Disabled People offers sexual aids, books, and resources. $4.00. Write: The Xandria Collection, P.O. Box 319005, San Francisco, CA 94131. Tel: 800-242-2823.
Good Vibrations is a free list of mailorder and Internet catalogs offering sexual aids, books, and videos. They discreetly package all mailings. Write: Good Vibrations, 938 Howard Street, Suite 101, San Francisco, CA 94103. Tel: 800-289-8423.
MS Learn Online
Check out our Webcasts, "Positive Relationships" and "Together in the MS Journey" at main.nationalmssociety.org/MSLearnOnline.
Computer dating is everywhere on the Web-and safety is essential. Never give your name, address, or home telephone number to an Internet contact. If the relationship develops, arrange for a meeting in a public place-and take a friend along. With that in mind, many friendships and romances start on the Web. Try www.datingfaces.com/ (with 500,000 members) or go to www.dateable.org/, which specializes in people with disabilities.
Enabling Romance: A Guide to Love, Sex, and Relationships for People with Disabilities (and the People Who Care About Them) by Ken Kroll and Erica Levy Klein is considered the "Joy of Sex" for people with disabilities. It candidly covers a whole range of subjects while shattering sexual stereotypes. No Limits Communications, 220 pages, paperback. Amazon.com.
MS and Intimacy by Tanya Radford is a 32-page National MS Society booklet. Call your chapter for a copy.